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Changing Ourselves for the Better

Yourself before your Health:     Everyone one of us has struggled with some aspect of our health in our lives, be it our weight or our appearance. I know that I have tried many things since I gained those extra pounds to get rid of them with varying degrees of...

Facing Adversity to Clarify Our Goals

Self Adversity:     As we journey along our paths we are going to find times that our goals and our means seem to be very different. We cognitively understand that as we continue on our path those things will come together and be more in tune with each other, but that...

To whine or not to whine

    All of us have trouble sometimes in our struggle to reach where we want to be, we all suffer setbacks and lulls in progress that make the journey feel like a trial rather than the joyous thing that it truly is. When it comes right down to it, we all whine about it...

Near and far, you need to see both

Maintain Your Course:     The point of having goals is that it gives us a destination to journey to. A lot of our growth and our fulfillment in life is going to be alone our journey to our goals, but without the goals there, the journey turns into a rambling and...

Are you holding yourself back from your dreams?

Always Seek a Better Way!     Humans are prone to habits and patterns of doing things. This is especially true when we have found something that works well for us; we end up falling into the process of doing those things the same way every time. This can be a trap...

Mistakes and Accountability

Mistakes and Accountability:     It is a matter of fact that at some point in our journey we will act in a way that goes against our core values, that we will let the pressures of the world outside us or the pressure of the demons inside us dictate our actions rather...

Get Stuck In

Get Stuck In:     There is an old adage that those who can, do, and those that can’t, teach. I don’t buy into that as anyone who attempts to teach something must have an exhaustive knowledge of the subject to be effective at teaching. Yet, when we look out the world...

Hold to Your Resolutions!

Defining Success:     As we go through and start to create the lives that we want live and goals to help us get there, the vast majority of us are going to have the word “success” in that picture somewhere. Yet very few of us could tell someone what success meant if...

Are you Authentic and Fulfilled?

Authenticity:     In all the reading and studying I have done to learn how to reach my dreams and goals in life, there is a theme that we should find someone that is living the life that we want and then we should copy them . This is generally presented as copying...

Doing it Right

Fear Means You Are Doing it Right:     Plan and simple, striving for our dreams is a terrifying prospect. There is a strange dichotomy that most people seem to grow up with. On one had we are taught that anyone can be anything, that the American dream is real and...